First Yes, Then I Do
The planner that becomes your keepsake
FIRST YES,
Then I Do
WEDDING
PLANNER
& MEMOIR

Every other planner ends up in a box in the attic. This one is a hardcover book you'll pull off the shelf 10 years from now and read what the 2 of you were thinking the week you picked the venue.

The Book

278 full-color pages. 31 chapters, from the rings to the honeymoon. Part planner, part memoir.

What's inside

Every chapter runs the same 7 sections, so nothing gets skipped and nothing gets forgotten:

  • What To Ask yourselves and every vendor before you sign anything
  • Things You Haven't Thought About... the surprise costs and timing traps
  • Tips & Tricks and Insider Secrets from inside the industry
  • To-Do Lists and fill-in worksheets
  • "My Thoughts" memoir pages, in your own handwriting

Two ways to keep it

Both are the same 278 pages, full color throughout, with room to write on nearly every page.

Paperback

The one that lives on the kitchen counter for the year of the wedding.

Paperback on Amazon

Hardcover

The gift edition. Engagement, bridal shower, or the friend who planned her own wedding.

Hardcover on Amazon

Ultimate Wedding Planner Secret Sheets

The spreadsheets behind the book. Budget, guest list, vendor tracker, seating, timeline and more, in Excel and Google Sheets, so the numbers add themselves up.

First Yes

Before the wedding there's the ring, the proposal and the budget for the life after. Adam spent 20 years inside the engagement and diamond jewelry industry. This is the part nobody else's planner covers.

First Yes

Free Ultimate Proposal Guide

How to buy the ring with confidence and plan the proposal without the panic.

Get the free guide
First Yes

Legacy & Leverage

How to get engaged the right way and buy with confidence. The long-form video.

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Then I Do

Budgeting as a couple

The money conversation before the wedding, so it's not the fight after.

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Every wedding has a story.

About Lucy & Adam

Adam and Lucy Solomine met in the engagement and wedding jewelry industry and have a combined 3 decades in engagement, weddings, jewelry and beauty. Lucy is a Master Lash Artist; the hair, makeup and lash chapter is hers. They wrote this book after their own wedding, for their three daughters, and for you.

Bulk orders for jewelry stores, planners and venues, or a podcast or feature request: [HELLO]@firstyesthenido.com